101 Reasons Why I Love Him

What can I say? I'm in love.

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Anonymous asked: Hi :) so it's AP testing season and my boyfriend is stressing out with his tests. I want to give him little sweet things after each of his tests as rewards/encouragements. Do you have any ideas?

Sorry! I hope this isn’t after AP’s already. That’s such a cute idea! Food is always an awesome gift for guys. Anything bacon. Or even just letters of encouragement help a lot. Comic books. Sporting equipment. Shirts. Funny coffee mugs. If it’s not too late you could get him one big thing like a trip to an amusement park at the start of the summer and give him little clues after each test. It’s super sweet that you’re doing this for him. He’s going to love the thought more than the gifts. Good luck, have fun with it! :)

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Anonymous asked: So there's this guy that I've been on and off with for 4 years now, he's put me through hell and back but I've never loved anyone more than him. We've been broken up now for more than 4-5 months probably and he's moved on to other girls several times. Even though he's hurt me a million times I can't help myself from constantly thinking about him. I've convinced myself so well that I'm still in love with him. How can I find myself and my strength again?

It’s going to be a long process. You love this guy so you won’t just be able to wake up one day and be over him. But you’re right that finding yourself is the way to move on. I suggest making a list of everything wrong he did and re-read/add to it every time you miss him. Take a few days to pamper yourself. Do your nails. Get a new hair cut. Focus on you. And whenever you feel comfortable with it start going on dates again. It doesn’t have to be anything serious but seeing who’s out there and how well other guys treat you will help you realize what an amazing person you are. You deserve the best, hon. Don’t settle for any less. 

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Anonymous asked: Is it possible to be in love at the age of 14?

Love is possible at any age but affection and infatuation is easily mistaken for being in love at younger ages. It’s common and nothing’s wrong with it. You won’t know if it’s love for real until you mature further and look back on your own feelings.

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Anonymous asked: How do you get a guy(my boyfriend) to give me or let me wear his sweatshirt?... :) were both 13 years old

I’m consulting my best friend (male) on this one…
He says just take it. 

Or you can do what I do and not bring a coat and then say you’re cold when you’re at his house and if he’s a gentleman then he’ll give you one of his! Bam! Boyfriend’s sweatshirt! Good luck girly ;)

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Anonymous asked: what is the best way to break up with someone as to not hurt them as much?

Rip it off like a band aid. Don’t string them along, they’ll just get to over thinking and more drama will build. Show respect, tell them in person. And understand that they will be hurt a little. It is personal. But by telling them the truth and letting them know that the relationship really did mean something to you, the pain should be tolerable. I wish there was a perfect way to end a relationship but unfortunately the human heart is too fragile for that. I hope all works out and wish you luck with your future relationships.

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Anonymous asked: Please help me I need it. I had a crush on this boy and everyone told me he was a player and then he found out I liked him so he asked me out and we dated for a month and then out of no where he broke up with me and I can't get over this break up why? It been a month I cry mostly every night listening to sad music and looking at our old messages and my friends hate him but not all of them and his best friend told me he kinda likes me should I date him again? Please help me

If you want the logical advice, don’t date him again. He broke your heart after only a month the first time, the second time is likely to be worse. I know your heartache is massive and painful, but time will heal it. There is another guy out there who is worth waiting for! A guy who’s not going to hurt you. If you’re obsessing over this guy, you might feel that getting back with him is the only way to be happy again. But remember you were happy before him. I hope this helped. It’ll all work out it the end xo

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Anonymous asked: Hi:)I'm in 8th grade and I'm currently dating my friend that I've had a crush on since the 6th grade. We've been dating for almost 4 months now. A lot of people believe it's impossible to love at the age of 14. But I truly do believe I love him with all my heart. And I know that he feels the same way. We're almost graduating and we're going to different high schools. I'm planning to talk about high school with him soon. I'm afraid of the heartbreak if we break up. Advice for teen relationships?

My advice: make sure you don’t get too ahead of yourself. No one can tell you if you do or don’t love someone, but most young relationships will end simply because people grow and change. Which over all is a good thing. But as far as high school goes, don’t over think it. If you guys still live near each other then dating shouldn’t be an issue. Besides, you have this whole summer ahead of you! Live in the now. Why even bother talking about high school? Enjoy each other’s company. Maybe you’ll be together forever! Honestly, probably not. But that’s okay! You’ll date lots of people and learn what you really love in people. Keep that in mind if/when you’re greeted by heartache. It sucks. I’m not going to lie. But it’s necessary to get to the next step of your life. Enjoy this relationship. And your next. And all of them. Remember that life will lead you to the right one eventually. 

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Anonymous asked: there's a boy I've become friends with over this year (were both 14) and all our friends are part of the same group. I have the Biggest crush ever. We talk together all the time. stares at me in class and we blush, we tease each other, and that time he hugged me made me melt. But as perfect as I think we'd be, he's never asked me out(except that one time when we first meant, which was a joke)my heart when I always think of how perfect we are but I don't know what to do or what to tell him. HELP




It’s the 21st century, girls can make the first move. I’ve actually made the first move with most of the guys I dated. It’s scary but knowing how scary it is just shows you maybe why he hasn’t done it yet. Just text him and ask if he wants to grab ice cream sometime or go to a school sporting event together. At 14 I know dates can be kind of limited but see if he wants to come over to watch a movie. A date is only a date. Give it a shot, you have nothing to lose. Good luck!! xx

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Anonymous asked: I'm in the most stereotypical situation. I've like my best friend for awhile now and I have no idea if he likes me or not. He kinda shows interest then he doesn't and I'm just confused. I've never been able to tell the signs. We have so much in common and I just want to be able to tell.

Tell him. If you don’t it’s gonna eat you alive. And talking to him is the only way to know for sure what his feelings are. If he really is your best friend, he’ll understand even if he doesn’t return the same feelings. Just let him know you’ve been having some not-just-friends thoughts about him and see what he says. I know how terrifying this can be! I went through this exact thing about a month ago. And he didn’t feel the same way. But he’s still my best friend and everything is totally normal. The awkwardness lasted about 20 minutes until we watched a movie together and our friendship over shadowed everything. Just hold on to the friendship you guys have and it’ll work out no matter his feelings. Best of luck!